I was never in the wood work, I am married to a stout feminist, have 5 amazingly strong and independent daughters from 16-25. Dis agreeing with some does not make you phobic. I get your on the identity politics band wagon, you wanna cancel anyone who doesn't share your opinion, you wanna label us as trans-misogynists, but that is not the case.
It is wrong and disrespectful to categorize trans-women & Cis women in the same group.
I love and pray for you to open your mind and not be so stiff and immovable that you can not respect a dissenting opinion.